Thursday, 18 November 2010

Update

As Jay requested another blog post, I thought I'd post a quick update about how things are going. Unfortunately, because my brain is frazzled at the moment the only title I could think of for this entry is "Update". Unoriginal, I know, but it'll do.

So, the short version. Health - the treatment is going well. I've been prescribed a drug called Maxolon to help with the nausea and it's really working. Still bald, still tired, but feeling a lot better overall.

Dylan - things really couldn't be better. He came for a quick visit this past weekend and he was really sweet the whole time he was here, though I did have to fight him every time I tried to get out of bed. He insisted on doing everything for me, but as much as I appreciate the sentiment (and I apologise for the crudeness) my bowels and bladder cannot move through him. Besides, when I'm feeling well enough to walk around I do like to get out of bed. It was nice having him here, though, even if it felt like I had two mothers the entire weekend.

School - I'm managing to keep up with the work, even though I can't attend at the moment. For those who don't know about the many lovely effects of chemotherapy, your immune system is pretty much fucked for a while so I have to stay home to avoid catching the many winter colds that are already going around. I have a friend bring me copies of his notes once a week and my brother has taken my assignments into school for me, so hopefully I'll manage to get through this without having to write off the year and repeat. I know it would probably be best if I concentrated on my health, but the work keeps my mind busy and stops me from dwelling on this too much.

Only other real bit of news here is that we've had our first snow of the winter. It was only on the mountains and not on the ground, but it was very pretty to see. Unfortunately the roads were too icy for my father to come home this weekend, so I didn't get to see the old fart, but he called every night and called on Sunday afternoon just to talk to me, which was nice. He may be an old misery at times, but he's not bad as father's go. Just don't tell him I said so.

Oh and my sister called yesterday to tell my Mum she's pregnant. I should explain here as she's not actually my sister by blood. She's the daughter of one of my mother's closest friends. When she was fifteen her parents were killed in a car accident and my mother took her in. I was only five at the time (so back before I even knew Dylan...sometimes I don't believe such a time existed), and she left home when we moved to Scotland, but even though she was only with us for three years I've always called her my sister. Even if she calls me "the brat" (affectionately, most of the time). Anyway, she got married a couple of years ago and after a year of trying she's finally pregnant, so sometime in May next year I'll have a new niece or nephew. Just wish she lived closer so I could see her more often.

Anyway, that's it for now. I have to go get my dose of poison in a couple of hours so I'm going to distract myself by doing some writing for a bit.

8 comments:

  1. Well cool, Ryo, thanks for the update. It sounds like things are going as well as can be expected, which seems to be pretty good!

    Glad to hear things are awesome with Dylan. I'm sure it was nice to be doted over for a bit, but the bathroom stuff, well, probably better off done in private!

    I'm sure the school work is a good thing - it keeps your mind sharp, and that's important to getting well. Not sure that just laying around would be as valuable. I'll cross my fingers that the year isn't a write off.

    It's cool your dad called, I never hear from mine unless I call him, and he hates talking on the phone.

    Interesting story about your sister. How very awesome of your mother to take her in at a time when I'm sure she was traumatised. It proves you don't have to be blood to be family. Congrats on becoming an uncle real soon, it's a cool feeling. I have 3 nieces and 2 nephews.

    Thanks again for the update, dude. Didn't want to probe too hard, but glad you felt up to letting us know how you are doing. And just think, hair growing starts soon!

    Peace <3
    Jay

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  2. Ryo,
    I hope things are still on the mend. The holidays are approaching, and I don't want you to think I've forgotten you!

    MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!

    Peace <3
    Jay

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  3. Thanks guys.

    Sorry I haven't been on for a while, but it's too damn cold to be sitting at my desk, which is right by my window, which in spite of the heating in the house currently has ice on the inside! And despite its name, my laptop is too damn heavy to have on my lap.

    The treatment is over, I'm doing great, but I'm staying wrapped up warm as much as possible. Dylan is here for Christmas and I only get to sneak out of bed when he leaves the room...though he is giving me plenty of reasons to stay in bed when he is here. ;)

    All is well and hopefully I'll be getting the all-clear in a couple of weeks.

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  4. Ryo! Soooo good to hear the good news about the treatment! That's a WONDERFUL Christmas present!

    Sorry about the cold room. Keep yourself bundled up, and use the body heat from Dylan to stay warm.

    And don't apologize for not posting, we all understand, and would rather have you well!

    MERRY CHRISTMAS, HAPPY HOLIDAYS!
    Peace <3
    Jay

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  5. Ryo!
    I hope you are doing well here in the new year. It's been a COLD winter, and I hope you are staying snug and warm (ideally, with Dylan to assist).

    Don't forget to keep us updated, we do care. A lot. You're a great guy, and we all want to see you healthy again.

    Peace, friend, and <3
    Jay

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  6. OK, here I go again!
    What's up, Ryo? I pray everything is going well, that you are recovering.
    Hope the hair is growing back. You are quite handsome with hair! And probably cute without, but who knows...
    Bring us up to date!
    Peace <3
    Jay

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  7. Guess I gotta poke you again!

    What's happening, Ryo? Hope this post finds you well, and regrowing your wonderful hair!

    You know your friends care, so let us know what's up, good or bad!

    Peace <3
    Jay

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  8. Sorry for worrying you, Jay - have posted a blog update and am now back home. You can read all about it there, but I want to say your messages made me smile. *hugs*

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